🦋Reading For December 2020🦋

December has always held a very different energy from all other months, I am a December born so it does hold a special place for me. 

December is the month we take stock of where we have reached, what we have achieved. How far we have come from January. The end of the year, the end of what we began and where we would like to reach next year. 

This year has changed all our lives, it has changed us as people, it has shown us what slowing down has brought to our awareness personally and for our worlds. Many of us have had no choice but to face our shadow selves. Face our fears, or atleast have to deal with them lurking around, waiting for us to face them. Some of us have, some of us are holding on for the shift to do so. So let’s see what guidance December brings for us.

Message From The Shadow World:

Miscommunication occurs when we are unable to listen to other people. Arguments, mistakes and conflict occur when we refuse to acknowledge information.

We communicate with others using verbal and non-verbal techniques. Our body language, listening skills and attitude determine how effective we are as communicators. It takes work and effort to improve our communication skills and with patience they will develop over time. 

At the heart of all relationships is communication. And that is what December wants you to bring to your awareness. Hidden messages can be seen by looking at body language, facial expressions and tone of voice. Improvements in these areas help support solid friendships and relationships. Speak with truth and integrity now. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Don’t be impatient and intolerant - this could lead to misunderstandings and actions that, once said, cannot be taken back. 

This month, listen with empathy and understanding to those around you. Place yourself in other people’s shoes to gain a new perspective. There are always better ways to get your message across, Find those! 

Start with being respectful and open-minded when speaking to others. Remember it is better to communicate your feelings instead of being burdened by them. 

In December spiritual communication is high. Take notice of these signs and symbols from the spirit world as they try to connect to you through music, feathers, butterflies, dragonflies, moths, birds and number sequences. Be open to receiving the messages as they come from the heart, with love.

Healing The Shadow Self:

“Everything in your life falls apart in order for you to rise from the ashes with renewed strength”. 

This month is not a time to create, but a time to sweep away everything that has not worked in your life. The reason so many things are breaking down and not going your way is because the old cycle of your life is completing.

You may feel that you are walking through the fires of life right now in order to be cleansed and purified for your rebirth. Soon you will not recognise yourself. It is time for the reclaiming of your spirit. 

Now is a time for you to feel any pain that you have previously suppressed so that you can heal. Do this with the help of a professional if needed. Work on your ouch to release it. Begin by acknowledging it so you can move forward from it in the correct way. The universe has plans and opportunities that are better than you can imagine, so let go and trust and anticipate what is coming. 

Try This:
Write down what you are afraid to let go of. Number your fears, from the worst thing that could happen to the smallest fears. Then on another sheet of paper write down what could be a possible gift of facing that fear. 

Place your hands on the part of your body where you feel the most fear. Say to yourself or out aloud: ‘ I am willing to let this fear go’ (do this for each fear on your list individually). 

Imagine being able to take this sensation of fear out of your body into the palms of your hands. Envisage that the fear transforms into a bird. Surrender the bird to a higher source and visualise it flying away. Repeat the word ‘Surrender’ as many times as you need. When you are ready, burn the sheet of paper with your fears. And keep the one with the possible gifts in a safe place to reflect on later as and when you need to. 

The Gift of 2020:

“I know that I can do whatever I set my mind to”. 

As a soul, you are on a mission in this physical dimension. You are the only one who knows the correct path to take. Your intuition - Your connection to Spirit - is your compass.

You have the power to stay the course, and you are stronger and more determined than you might first think, then you were at the beginning of this year. This month December is the time to realise the strength within yourself. Your soul must acknowledge its' ‘inner strength’.

Your gift is to live the joyfulness your soul yearns for and engage in activities you have always wanted to try but were afraid you’d fail. Trust that your soul would not yearn for something that you couldn’t accomplish. Know that you have the strength and fortitude to be capable of greatness. 

I Wish You An Enlightened December 
And A Very Happy 2021 New Year 
Love and Light 
Shivani 

(My gift from 2020 was bringing tai chi and dragonflies into my life. I moved to a place in nature with animals and birds around me. Thank you universe for teaching me to be at peace with slowing down and showing me that another level of strength and healing comes with moving slowly through my life. Thank you for bringing in mindful movements and moments.💚🙏🏻) 

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